lib/api: Save session & CSRF tokens to database, add option to stay logged in (fixes #9151) (#9284)

This adds a "token manager" which handles storing and checking expired
tokens, used for both sessions and CSRF tokens. It removes the old,
corresponding functionality for CSRFs which saved things in a file. The
result is less crap in the state directory, and active login sessions
now survive a Syncthing restart (this really annoyed me).

It also adds a boolean on login to create a longer-lived session cookie,
which is now possible and useful. Thus we can remain logged in over
browser restarts, which was also annoying... :)

<img width="1001" alt="Screenshot 2023-12-12 at 09 56 34"
src="https://github.com/syncthing/syncthing/assets/125426/55cb20c8-78fc-453e-825d-655b94c8623b">

Best viewed with whitespace-insensitive diff, as a bunch of the auth
functions became methods instead of closures which changed indentation.

gui/default/syncthing/core/syncthingController.js

@@ -103,6 +103,7 @@ angular.module('syncthing.core')
             $http.post(authUrlbase + '/password', {
               username: $scope.login.username,
               password: $scope.login.password,
+              stayLoggedIn: $scope.login.stayLoggedIn,
             }).then(function () {
                 location.reload();
             }).catch(function (response) {
@@ -3602,7 +3603,7 @@ angular.module('syncthing.core')
                 return n.match !== "";
             });
         };
-        
+
         // The showModal and hideModal functions are a bandaid for a Bootstrap
         // bug (see https://github.com/twbs/bootstrap/issues/3902) that causes
         // multiple consecutively shown or hidden modals to overlap which leads