feat(config): enable multiple connections by default (#10151)

This changes the default number of connections from one to three (one
metadata + two data connections). This should give some advantages of
multiple connections, while also not being an overwhelming change for
larger installations. (Though those may need to tweak their settings
anyway, as always.)

relnotes/v2.0.md

@@ -21,3 +21,7 @@
   efficient without it.
 
 - A "default folder" is no longer created on first startup.
+
+- Multiple connections are now used by default between v2 devices. The new
+  default value is to use three connections: one for index metadata and two
+  for data exchange.